Correction....

I feel like I am writing for our town's newspaper and need to submit a correction. Actually, maybe better stated a clarification.......

Yesterday's events were horrific. Thankfully, they are NOT as bad as we have seen in our house. OY!!! I digress....... Anyway, yesterday Bubba did retrieve the ball out of the tree. Then being an eight year old boy, he was going to throw it again for his puppy. Puppy being a knuckle headed goofball of a dog, with an extremely large blockhead jumped up in excitement and smashed into my son's face. That is how the said gruesome story unfolded. Even though our dog has worn a cape a time or two, to become Underdog, or Super Puppy he does not have flying abilities ~ yet. He does have great jumping abilities.

This isn't our first collision with puppy trying to do good gone wrong, and something tells me it won't be our last. However, Bubba was cheerful about it today until the recess duty teacher told him he couldn't play soccer. That tore my son's heart right open and wounded him more than the physical pain he is in. She wasn't willing to risk additional trauma to the mouth, and there is part of me who agrees, and a VERY big part of me that almost cried with my little guy.

He came home and played soccer with his dog.

Took the Plunge

Just like the Nestea guy, I took the plunge. After MUCH deliberating, praying, discussing, meeting, observing, and more prayer, we decided for me to take the plunge and apply to:

GO BACK TO SCHOOL

Yep, I am going to hopefully hit the books, log in on-line, and in the end become an Educational Therapist. What is that????? Yeah, I had NO idea either. Basically it is a Special Ed teacher at the kid's school using the Discovery method from NILD.

So I sent in my application, and they received it in headquarters yesterday (thanks certified mail!). So now I wait, and find out what the verdict is. If accepted, I would be extremely excited, scared, and anxious. But mostly, EXCITED!!! If rejected, I will be sad, disappointed, and confused as to where God is putting me for next year. If accepted, school starts January 4th. Nothing like last minute here!!! Will keep you posted.

Additition problem......

What do you get when you add one boy playing ball, one puppy who wants the ball, and one tree? The answer in my world: is an EMERGENCY trip to the Dentist, to see if the hospital is next!

Yep, that was my afternoon. I had sent Bubba outside to play with the puppy. It makes them both happier come homework time. He had just checked in with me, and told me about the NFL kick that put the ball in the tree. I being a responsible parent, told him to retrieve the said ball and then come in and finish homework. We have a BIG report due tomorrow after all. What do I hear as doing homework with Missy? THE BLOOD CURDLING SCREAM!!!! I run outside to find my son with a bloody face. After rushing him to the kitchen, and applying pressure, I soon realized this was worse than I feared. I called the dentist, and he said come right down.

We sped down to the dentist.....figured if I got pulled over, they could look in the back at WHY I was speeding. We got right in at the dental office. WHEW!! The dentist looked at his mouth and lips, and assessed that we just barely made it to the point of NO stitches. Bub's braces actually helped save his teeth from being too damaged. His lip will heal, as will the cut in his mouth, but it looks NASTY. Just know this, because I value you, I saved you from the gore of pictures. Should be interesting tomorrow at school.

When we got home, Koda was VERY sorry and laid at Bubba's feet while he did the homework and finished his report. He even gave Bubba an "I AM sorry" slobbery kiss which made Bubba giggle.

Whew.....!

I am a rule follower. THAT is a big part of who I am. Last week, I was told, by Federal Jury duty cyber phone voice, that I was not to call in again until Sunday night. So.....Sunday night I called in, only to be told by cyber woman, that I was to report for jury duty at 7:45 on Tuesday, December 8th and to call back on Monday night for further instructions. YIKES!!! However, I was excited that at least I had a day's notice to prepare for my day. I could arrange for childcare, make sure that the kids on my caseload were prepared that I wasn't coming, and basically get ready for what may come.

Monday night, I called back like instructed. Then much to my amazement, the cyber voice said "Thank you for your time, your jury services has been fulfilled. You do not need to report for the rest of the week." Hear the Hallelujah Chorus? Do you hear the trumpets, horns, and tambourines? I sure did after listening to the message for a second time.

So after preparing my kids, my students, and the teachers I work with, that I WOULDN'T be there today, I showed up. I serviced my kids like normal, and had a great Tuesday.

Hope your day was just as happy!

Christmas Tradition...........

I try every year to read a Christmas book at Christmas time. I was a great thematic teacher, can you tell? Anyway, this is one of my ABSOLUTE favorites. I love the Herdmans and their funny antics. I love that you never really know the kid telling the story. I love that the true meaning of Christmas is there the entire time. I especially learned to love this book one year, when Mr. C. and I were early marrieds, and he had never read it, so we read it out loud to each other. I value this book, when I forget that there are real Herdmans out there, no matter what town or school you go to, and they need love too. If you need a good Christmas read, one that brings the little ones to giggle too.......Enjoy this one! This year I get the privilege of enjoying this book with Bubba, as his class is reading it together. I can't wait for story time tonight!

Did you know......

Did you know, that if you are summoned for FEDERAL Jury Duty, that it last for

TWO STINKING WEEKS???

YIKES!!! Yep, guess who has it??? That is right my friends! So on top of trying to work, Christmas shop, see my family, go to Soccer playoffs (yeah Bubba!!!), orthodontist appointments, dental cleaning for me, etc.......every night I have a date with my phone to see if I frantically need to rearrange my schedule, or miss Parent/Teacher conferences because of jury duty.

WHO KNEW?

So for those of you out there, who complain about the week long process, I have just had my own bubble burst and found out that yes, there are indeed worse scenarios out there!

I am whining I know, but that is all I have right now ~ sorry!

Priceless......

May I introduce to you........the cookie sheet! If your little boys, or bigger boys for that matter are into Legos then you know the problem that comes with them. There are several little bags in every box, and within those bags are what seem to be a bazillion pieces. So to conquer this problem for my Lego men in my house, I gave them a cookie sheet. This is a way that they can move their creations off of the dinning room table and not loose a piece. The cookie sheet provides nice sides, so the pieces don't roll off. If the cookie sheet gets bumped, the pieces generally are safe, and you can even transport in the car safely creations. Price of cookie sheet ~ 99 cents at the 99cent store. Price of not stepping on those little pieces ~ priceless!

And for the girlie girls in our houses......the cookie sheet reigns again. If your little girl is into magnetic paper dolls....they stick beautifully to the cookie sheet, and keep the refrigerator clear from paper dresses and princess that a big puppy might like to eat (ahem Koda!) Also allows for it to go in the car, for rides to Grandma's, soccer games, or where ever we are off to! Price of little princesses creating glorious outfits, and not loosing shoes ~ priceless!

Ode to Koda

This is Koda, our now full grown (or almost) puppy. We brought him home a year ago today (the much smaller version of him.)

He loves my parent's dog Hailey when she comes over to play and snuggle

Here he is about three months old, and growing like a weed. He still loves to cuddle with a blankie. Exactly like the human puppies in my family. He fits right in.

A week after we brought him home, and winning our hearts over with that face. That face still keeps him out of getting in major trouble. And he knows it!

We first fell in love when we found this puppy. He is ten days old, his eyes are still closed, and his ears are smaller than my thumb nail. We didn't know at the time he would grow to be close to 100 pounds, or a complete goofball. However, we wouldn't change the way it all worked out. This is when Bubba fell in love, holding this puppy sealed the deal on which one he wanted to bring home in several weeks. Do you see that face? He is part of our family. I can't believe that it has been a year. What a complete blessing he is.

Practical Hypocrite

So a while ago I posted my soapbox about starting things Christmas TOO early. I still stand by those statements. However, here is my confession..........

I am guilty of being a practical Hypocrite.

Last week we took the family to California Adventure, since the kids had the day off. While there, we did indeed see Santa sitting in his gazebo, waiting for the next kid in line. The line was all of ONE family. Mr. C. looked at me, I at him, and we both agreed to take the plunge. When would we be at Disneyland again or California Adventure and virtually have NO wait? So he talked to the kids, he made Missy giggle, and we took our family photo. If nothing else, I am a practical Mom. I do see the opportunity and grab it! I apologize for my hypocritical ways, but as fellow Moms, I hope you would do the same. Carpi Diem and all of that ;)

The Sweetest Words EVER!!!

The sweetest words a parent of a missing child can hear is: "I have her!!! I have her!!! SHE is here with me. Come and get her." These are the words that my friend got to hear after her four year old walked away from the family at the soccer fields. After being able to witness the reunion of Mom and child (still bringing tears to my eyes by the way), I began to seriously ponder.......

God must feel the same way when HE receives this message. The Holy Spirit or Christ comes across the phone and says :"WE have her. She is now safe. She is now here." You see, I don't often think of myself as a child, why would I? But that is indeed what I am . I am a child of God.

Yet after this event, it occurred to me how many times I have wondered away from my Heavenly Father. Not super far, still where my Heavenly Father can find me, and me HIM, but wondered. Chasing butterflies, off in my own mind, seeking things that I think I need to go after, only to be drawn further away from HIM. I have created the need to be found. You see, the child in this story wasn't intentionally trying to give her parents the fear of their lives and a heart attack. She was being four, and allowed herself to get distracted and wonder further than she thought she was. But I have been guilty of the same thing.

The beauty of this story, and the spiritual tie, is that my friend was not angry, she was just happy to have her lovely girl back in her arms. The prodigal son, has the same ending - rejoicing of the lost one found. Looking back, I shamefully have wondered on more than one occasion, yet received the forgiveness and hugs of coming back to where I belong. I hope that after experiencing this with my friend, I will learn the lesson before I wonder again. Somehow now that I am a parent myself, the story of the prodigal son has new meaning.

Thank You

To all the Veteran's out there,

THANK YOU.

These two words do not seem enough to say, yet that is all I know. You do a job, I physically can not do. You protect me from things I don't know about, and for the ones I do, that scares me enough. You serve those who don't appreciate you, and for those who do. You carry our country's safety on your shoulders, and take that responsibility with a seriousness most of us don't even see a glimmer of. Thank you for those who have served in the past, the present, and for the boys who are dreaming of the job for the future.

I Want to Be.......

I had the Under Roos at the age of 6 or so. She was so cool! Bullet reflector bracelets, red boots, reflector and weather proof hair, an invisible plane.....the list goes on and on. Who wouldn't want to be Wonder Woman today?

If I WERE able to be Wonder Woman.......I would be able to work a full week as the teacher of first grade and come home with energy, with complete patience for my own family. I would be able to pull together delicious meals every night this week, instead of banana pancakes that are on the menu tonight. I would have had something brewing in the Crock Pot all day, so our home would smell wonderful upon the arrival of the family and hubby coming home. The laundry would be done folded, and put away. The house would be clean and the garden freshly spruced up. In the mornings, I wouldn't be cranky and urging my kids out the door, unusually and possibly ungodly early. My hair, nails, and make-up would be flawless. Traffic, smaffic as I sailed with five kids in the invisible plane over drivers who can't drive. I could save people from the injustices in the world, and still have time to buy that birthday present I need by Thursday. Oh, I would be unstoppable!

Since, the job has already been filled, I guess I will take one day at a time. I will do the best with what I have, and I will be a Philippians 4:13 Mom ~ doing all things through Christ who strengthens me. Can't really ask for more than that. Her accessories would be cool though, especially the plane!

Righteous Anger........

I have a confession.........

This week, I got angry at stores. Here is my story of what I feel to be a righteous anger.

1.) I am shopping in Michael's, looking for some lovely paper to adorn these invitations I was commissioned to make. As I am looking for glittered paper, I hear over the speakers "Jingle Bells" and then "Rockin' Around the Christmas Tree". This happened on November 2nd!!! I understand that Halloween is officially over, and that the Christmas paraphernalia needs to go up, especially in a craft store, but REALLY???? it is the BEGINNING of November.

2.) The very next day, was a doozy. Mr. C. had to get up at 4:45 for an exceptionally early flight to our states capital. Then because of the loveliness of time change, Missy got up at 5:45! I couldn't go back to sleep, so I got my day started. I will save you the roller coaster of things that went wrong yesterday morning, but I WAS looking forward to heading to Starbucks, meeting my friend to give her the invitations, and get the MUCH NEEDED coffee. The girl behind the counter, welcomes me friendly. I feel a wave of relaxation coming my way......ahhhhhhhh. The smell of coffee is in the air! Then she says the words that stop me in my clouded thinking....." We now have the Gingerbread and Eggnog lattes, if you would like today." I was shocked. I am not ready for Christmas flavors. So to my credit, very calmly I replied "Oh, no thank you it is still November, I need those flavors in December and January. I would like a pumpkin spice latte please." I know that this flavor is expensive (I know Mrs. Dunbar, I know) but it was a matter of NEED, not WANT on this particular morning.

When I worked at Nordstrom there was a sign that went on every branch of the store during November: They celebrate Thanksgiving and use it as a time TO GIVE THANKS! Here is a copy of the Michigan Journal, that applauds Nordstrom as well, and wraps up my thinking in general! Let me give out a WOOT WOOT to Pete Nordstrom!

"Tis the season to be jolly." Though the words of the popular Christmas carol are well known, many Americans have long forgotten the time span for the actual Christmas season.Surrounded by much controversy, Christmastime has no definite start or finish. Beginning as early as Columbus Day when temperatures are still in the high 60s and lasting until late January when people finally figure out that throwing the extremely dead (not to mention fire-hazardous) Christmas tree to the curb would be a good idea, Christmas seems to be a season just like spring or fall. Fortunately, for consumers sick of being bombarded with irritating Christmas decorations, there is a safe haven.We at The Michigan Journal wish to applaud the department store, Nordstrom. Separating itself from its competitors, Nordstrom stores are not Christmas clad until the day after Thanksgiving. "We believe in celebrating each holiday in its entirety before moving on to the next one," said Nordstrom spokesman John Baily in an interview with The New York Times. At the entrance of each Nordstrom store, customers can spot a sign announcing Nordstrom's commitment to wait until after Thanksgiving to decorate. Considered a breath of fresh air for consumers tired of being overrun by the early onset of Christmas decorations, people have taken notice of the bold statement. Pete Nordstrom, the president of Nordstrom department stores, admits, "I don't know of anything that we do that gets more favorable customer feedback."With such considerable support, one might wonder why other department stores do not follow in Nordstrom's footsteps. Representatives from Bloomingdales noted that their elaborate Christmas displays take time to set up, causing the department stores to start the decorating process long before Thanksgiving. "It's not like decorating your tree at home or your little vestibule. The New York store is close to a million square feet," said Joe Catugno, Bloomingdale's vice president for visual merchandising.Though the decorating process is time consuming, we at The Michigan Journal think it is no excuse. If Nordstrom can manage to decorate after closing on Wednesday to be ready for Black Friday, other department stores should be able to do the same. We appreciate the effort made by the department store and look forward to their appropriately timed 108th unveiling of Christmas decorations.

Gobble Up Dinner for Your Gobblins.......

So for Halloween the last few years this has been our adult menu: Kids get something like grilled cheese so that it won't ruin a costume before heading out for the good stuff!

Beef stew and the ever famous, Beer Bread!

(If I had sound effects, you would hear trumpets!)

Now, I will pretend that you all, say: "Trick or Treat," and I will give you the recipes. Even if you don't use them this weekend, they are tasty for a cold night. Hope you and your families have safe and fun weekends, whatever is in store for you.

Beef Stew, the EASY way:

2 Tablespoons all purpose flour

1 pound beef stew meat

2 tablespoons cooking oil
3 1/2 cups V8 (weird I know, but go with me on this)

3 1/2 cups water

1/2 cup chopped onion

2 teaspoons beef bouillon granules

2 cloves garlic, minced

1/2 teaspoon dried basil

1/2 teaspoon dried thyme

2 1/4 cups cubed and peeled potatoes

2 cups sliced carrots

1 cup celery

Barley to taste

Place flour in a plastic bag. Add meat cubes, a few at a time, shaking to coat. In a large saucepan or Dutch oven brown meat, half at a time, in hot oil. Return meat to saucepan. Add V8 and water, onion and rest of ingredients to thyme. Bring to boiling; reduce heat. Cover, simmer 1 to 1 1/4 hours. Add potatoes, carrots, and celery (barley if you choose). Cover, simmer 30 minutes more. Skim fat. Makes 4 servings, but is easy to double, triple, whatever!

And now friends, the moment you have been reading for........

The recipe for Beer Bread!!!!

(drum roll beating, trumpets blaring, and I wish I had a magic wand!!!)

If I am going to wish, why not big???

3 cups flour

3 tablespoons sugar

1 tablespoon baking powder

1 tsp salt
12 ounces of beer at room temperature ~ the cheaper the beer the better the rise, not sure why....but true

Preheat oven to 375. Oil a loaf pan Combine all dry ingredients and mix with a wooden spoon, mixing in beer last. Bake for 35 to 45 minutes or until nice and golden on top. If baking in a stone loaf pan 40 minutes is perfect. Let cool in pan for about 10 minutes, and then cool completely out of pan on rack before cutting (if you can wait that long!) Serve with plenty of butter, honey is great, peanut butter in the morning is awesome....best served with friends and beer! Enjoy, and if my friends who live around me are reading this....invite me over for some ;)

Also....go check out Lemonade Makin Mama for her post about some amazing cookies, now you have dinner and dessert! YUM!!!

Highly Recommended

If anyone pays attention to my reading list, you will notice a lot of books by D. Henderson. Can I just say that I lOVE her books? The series that I have been reading is called the O'Malley series. What ties the books together, is that each of the O'Malleys are siblings, who all have these wonderful jobs. There is action, romance, unpredictable outcomes, and what I love most, is the undeniable TRUTH that she preaches within every story. Each character, has their moments of unbelief in God and His abilities. But they also have their triumphs and realization that HE is there, taking care of them. There is a prequel to the O'Malley series called: Danger in the Shadows, a great place to start, but you don't have to read it first per say (although highly recommended). In fact, my Mom has read the books out of order on accident, and it hasn't impaired her love of the series. She did however comment that you loose a bit of the history of relationships going out of order.

Dee Henderson's other books are just as good, hold just as much suspense, and preach just as much truth. If you need a good read, here is a great place to start!

Tuesday's Treasure ~ Field Trip

There are 60 student in the third grade at Bubba's school. There is a large majority who are stay at home Mamas. SO....when there is a

field trip, you can imagine the chaos of all of us who want to go and experience the trip with our young'ins. Well, guess WHO got picked???? I am so excited!!!

Not only was I picked, but my Sister in Law was also picked from my niece's class. This is just an added bonus as I won't have to drive up by myself, and our car will stop at Starbucks on the way, and still beat the bus. This Mama doesn't do school buses on a mountain road ~ sorry.

We are going on a hayride, and gonna learn about the colonial era, and how they lived. We will pick apples and eat our lunch in the shade of the apple trees. Not only am I excited about going on the trip itself, but I am especially excited to spend the day with my Bubba, and enjoy him and his friends.

An added bonus.......with my tutoring job, I just have to rearrange my calendar and schedule and I am being encouraged to go enjoy the day. What a tremendous blessing!!!!

Time Flies........

When we are young we learn the principle of time. There are 60 seconds in a minute, 60 minutes in an hour, and 24 hours in a day. It is the simple concept of there being 7 days in a week, and 4 weeks in a month, 12 months in a year.

What I do not understand sometimes, is how can it be Monday again? How exactly did the laundry pile up so fast? Where did the week go?????? How is it, that life is so busy, that I am catching up on blogs instead of feeling connected from the blogs? How exactly did it happen that I haven't posted in a week, when there have been multiple posts in my head?

I am at a loss, and I think my laundry is making babies. I just wish the babies where free clothes in my kids sizes ~ one can dream right?

Tuesday's Treasure

My treasure this week is friendships.....

Lately I have been reminded at just how blessed I am with the friends that I have been given. I am not talking about the superficial friends, but the real deal. The friends you call (or your kids call) when your house almost burns down (not my story, but you know who you are). The friends you call, when life goes for the major roller coaster ride. The ones who invite you over for dinner, and it is leftovers. The people who arrive in sweats at your house. When you call on the phone, it probably means you will spend some of your time talking to the munchkins as well. They were there for weddings, kids birth, and the new puppy, because it was happening in life. The friends that are with you for more time than you can remember...........and you can't imagine your world without them, wherever they are.

We were blessed to visit with some of these friends last weekend. We have known the Brunners for 15 years now. We haven't seen each other in 6 years. They got to come to our neck of the woods for a conference he needed to attend. Given the opportunity to 1) hang out with them and 2) go to the Beach, my Honey and I were there! We had a great time reconnecting about the new things in life, and laughing at the old memories.

What I love about true friends is this: the time lapse doesn't matter, for when you are together, it is as if you were never apart. For that moment, all is right in the world for you are together.

Smooches and Hugs to my friends, for I love you all!

Happy Hula Friday

Today was Hawaiian dress up day at the school. Fitting, because true to our fall weather, today is 98 degrees, NO kidding. It seemed fitting that my kids go to school in these outfits in this weather, when earlier this week, we were wearing rain coats and sweaters. This however is my mood for today. Ahhhhh, to be on the beach hearing the waves, being served a tasty beverage by a cabana boy........that is where I am mentally. I hope you have an Aloha spirit of a weekend, and relax.

Cleaning Blessings........

So as most of you know, I have entered BACK into the work world of Reading Specialist. I cannot express how much I LOVE this job!!!! Truly this is a GINORMOUS blessing. As of right now, I have two kids on my case load (soon to be three). This is what that looks like: Tuesdays and Thursdays, I arrive at the school at 1pm. I tutor one student, have a clean up break, go and tutor another student. When I am cleaned up from that, I go and pick up my kids, and we all go home with nothing to do but homework, snacks, get dinner etc..........

Here was my dilemma..........I was carrying too much stuff! So in my "Why didn't I think of this sooner, Knucklehead!" wisdom, I found my old briefcase. It was like finding an old friend. It was given to me when I first started student teaching.....and carried me through my career. I love that case, it still is perfect and exactly what I needed.

But alas, it needed to be cleaned out, and dusted (ack!!!). When cleaning it out, I giggled at some of my finds. Random notes, cards from flowers that Mr. C. sent me on the last day of school (every year), you know......STUFF. With the exception of the cards from my Honey, most of it quite honestly was trash. Why I kept it, was pure laziness on my part. But then I found...........

MONEY!!!!!

Oh, man did I find money!!!! Lots, and lots, and lots of coins. Now you might be thinking that I am off my rocker at this point, but here is the short story.....

When the kids would turn in their book order, a lot of the times it was in the form of coins. So I created an envelope to stash it in for sodas after school, and meetings that we were required to attend (great planning on my part!) Well, the stash grew, and grew after 8 years of teaching. I don't drink THAT much soda. So apparently when cleaning out my filing cabinet on the last day, I put the coins in my bag, came home and forgot about it. I forgot about $27 dollars and some change to be exact!! That is a lot of quarters. So to celebrate, I am going shopping for a new top or something to wear to work, using my new funds. I know it won't get me much, but the thought of using money that was found is a blessing in itself. Maybe I should clean out my stuff more often. Who knows what I might find!

Ahh....Fall is here

Fall is officially here. We have had rain, cold mornings and colder evenings. Soccer is in full swing, and school is finally caught up after the "illness". This is what I am thankful for this week. Pumpkins on porches, a nip in the air, and the feeling that the season is finally changing around here. If you need a Mrs. C recipe for dinner tonight or another cold night, go to Lady Dunbar, where she posts one of my "Quickie Dinners". Seriously friends, it is NOT hard, but I get A LOT of credit for it :)

Flu, Flu Go Away...........

My household is the NyQuil commercial. We are the sniffling, sneezing, coughing, aching, stuffy head, fever, and can't go to school family. The bonus is that Mr. C. has yet to get it! HOW????? I am baffled, he has cuddled us all, wiped noses, and most likely been coughed in the face ~ yet he is healthy. Right now I covet his healthiness. I have my suspicions on WHAT we have exactly, but I am too chicken to go to the doctor for a blood test. There are 4 kids in Bubba's class out with it. 1/3 of my nephew's class was out last week (including my nephew). Missy's class is overwhelmed with it too. I just want it to end. Anyone want to come for a visit?????

Mirror, Mirror...........

We have all heard it said, and quite possibly said it ourselves either out loud or in our head

"Mirror, Mirror

on the wall,

Whose the fairest

one of all?"

If we look at the Creator of the mirror, our answer is staring right back at us.

We were listening to Missy recite her creation rhymes that go with her artwork that she brought home. At the end of every rhyme (and verse in Genesis for that matter) it ends with ......and He saw that it was GOOD. Not "Oh I am in a hurry, this will have to do". Definitely not "OOPS! Sorry" No where near, "Oh Dear, I screwed THAT one up" or even "This isn't worthy of anything, I need a trash can." NO, God said at the end of HIS creations that it was GOOD.

This means quite simply that if we believe that God created us, then we are considered GOOD. If we take our faith one step further, and believe in our heart of hearts, that we are created in HIS image, then the adjective of GOOD, doesn't even come close. For we are the FAIREST in the land.

Yet, we believe the lie that Satan wants us to believe. We believe and tell ourselves that we don't measure up. We don't fit into size (x) clothing, or weight (x) amount. Our hair is too curly, or not curly enough. We are either too tall, or too short. We have the wrong size feet, to share shoes with our girlfriends, and therefore defective in some way. The lines from laughing, we now don't laugh at but buy creams and potions to hopefully get rid of. We look and obsess over cellulite or stretch marks (that we earned carrying God's creation) with disdain, and uneasiness. This is not to let yourself go, or permission to NOT treat your body like the temple that it is. But it is the wake up call to STOP believing the lie that magazines, movies, and the media in general want us to believe.

We are GOD's creation. I for one, do not have the guts, balls, or courage to stand before the maker of the UNIVERSE and tell HIM where HE got it wrong, where I am concerned. So in light of that, I am going to work with what I have, STOP comparing myself to others, and look in the mirror, at the FAIREST in the land. AS a child of God, I get the bonus of also being a glorified Princess! May the Royal Crowns Unite!!!

Thanksgiving Family Night

We used to have Family Night once a week at my parents. It was Heavenly. My Mom would cook for us all, we would eat, drink, and settle down for "Must See TV" as a family. Now, that we all have kids, and schedules that rarely connect us during the week, it is a rare thing.

However, this week with a break in soccer practice, and the planets aligning, we had family night once again. What we weren't expecting was a Family Feast that my Mom prepared. We had Thanksgiving. Why???? Because my parents are trying to get rid of an old freezer, and the turkey was taking up too much space. She had bought it when it was on sale a month ago, and we never ate it. Turkeys are too big for just the two of them. So last night, we had it all mashed potatoes, yams, green beans, biscuits, gravy, stuffing, and the glorious Turkey. We even had pie for dessert! PIE!!!! YUMMMMMY!!!

It made it taste like fall, even if our weather doesn't feel like fall yet. The boys then figured out that we were having Thanksgiving exactly two months early. The girls kept the tradition of having us all say something we were thankful for from our week. How completely thoughtful that the kids picked up on the idea, that we don't need a calendar day to say what we are thankful for. I need to remember to more thankful everyday for even the little things, for enough little things add up to great big things.

Have a Thankful Weekend.

Twilight Confession..........

For all of you out there who are hooked, obsessed, or fascinated by the Twilight series, I have a confession............

I WAITED TOO LONG!!!!

Back in December, I bought Twilight (in paperback) as a filler gift for my Dad. He finished it while snowed in, and bought New Moon (in paperback). So I read the books in January and February......then I waited.

You see, I waited because Eclipse wasn't out in paperback. This is a funny little trait that runs in my family. If we start a book series in one format, we read all of the series in that same format. Crazy, I know, but it works for me and both my parents. Genetics, you can't pick your traits.

So a couple of weeks ago, I picked up Eclipse anxious to find out what happens in the world of Vampires and Werewolves......except I was a bit lost. I remembered enough of the big details from New Moon, but not enough of the little ones, to make the references to them make sense. So after 100 pages or so, of me trying to remember, I put the book down.

I went back to New Moon, and started reading the last third of the book. I can now see why my neighbor (who is 16) has read Twilight 13 times, and New Moon at least 10. I am not sure on the others, but I know it is multiple. There are SO many little details that you think don't matter, but really do. It was amazing how much of those I had forgotten or just not paid that much attention to. I can't say, that I will read the books as many times as my neighbor, but after rereading the one, in part, I will definitely reread them all.

As for Breaking Dawn......when I finish Eclipse, I am going to the Library so that I can finish the story. It won't be in paperback, but I have learned my lesson! :)

First Time Listening.......

Little Missy proudly brought home her homework on Friday. She has yet to discover that Homework will indeed loose it's appeal one day! Anyway, in the homework, she has a

First Time Listening Chart

She quickly explained this part of the homework. There are four categories, in which they can earn first time listening smiley faces. When the chart is complete, we are to have her wear the badge at the bottom of the chart. This is to enforce that we need to be first time listeners to parents, teachers and ultimately God, and when we obey parents and teachers, we are indeed obeying God and making Him happy.

This got me to thinking, as I have been marking the appropriate boxes with pink smiley faces....What would my chart look like? What are the categories that God would pick out for me that I need to work on? Just how long would it take me to earn the badge at the bottom of the chart, and receive praise? In some areas, I see that I need to step up on my listening ears......How are your ears doing today, this week, this month????

It's Official

It is official, I am back in the work force. Yesterday, after a comically coincidence of events that happen at an elementary school, I was seen for my interview thirty five minutes late. However, I was on time, and that is all that matters.

We chatted, we discussed how things would look, and in the end, I signed a contract. I am now officially the Reading Tutor for the school, as well as substitute teacher. That simply means, that as the kids need it, I am contracted out through the school. I get to set my own hours, days, and time limits. I get to use the resources of the school, as well as whatever I have at home.....oodles and oodles of reading materials. I work with the teachers, parents, and students to best get them where they need to be. I can't wait. This was my absolute favorite job when teaching, and now I can do it, and go to coffee with girlfriends too. Okay, and get some laundry and cleaning done too.

God is great at HIS timing and situations. I don't know where all of this is going to go exactly but I know for right now, I am being blessed with opportunity. I get to earn a little money for my family, while still being there to pick up my kiddos, and come home to puppy and homework. This is going to give me something to do, which in itself is a huge blessing.

Interview.......

I have a job interview today. I haven't been in an official interview in over 12 years. I am slightly freaked out, and a bit nervous.

I turned in my application a few weeks ago. But unlike the public school system, my kid's school interviews their subs. This is something that as a parent, I am thankful for. I don't want some schmuck off the street teaching my kids when I am paying for them to go there. I want quality teachers all of the time. The subs should have the same faith base and standards as the real teachers. As a teacher, I think this process is a bit much. REALLY, I applied for a sub, but WAIT, I also applied to be their reading specialist because there was that NAGGING voice (yes, I realize WHO the voice is) telling me to do so. Sometimes, I really don't like what that voice has to say.

So today, I am growing in faith, that HE really does know best, and am preparing for the interview. I have the dress on, the shoes that look great (Mrs. Dunbar and Jamie be proud!) Now, I need to work for my Dad for a bit, and then go to the interview. I am going to be doing a lot of praying while typing!

Somehow.......I have this nagging feeling that this interview is more than what I applied for. I don't know why, but it seems that this is the way God has been working lately. Will keep you posted.............

NOT Recommended

Here was my night last night. I do NOT recommend, you repeating it. Laugh all you want, but I will try and remedy it tonight.

After putting the kiddos to bed, I started watching Twilight, in a dark house with all lights off. I got as far as the wolf part, before realizing I was WAY too tired, to finish this movie tonight.

Took the dogs out for one last potty break before bed. Koda (11 months old) instantly went after a rabbit (good boy!) and then preceded to chase around the dark corner of the yard. All of the sudden he started to bark his "I am protecting my home, BACK OFF" bark. When he wants to sound like the size of dog he is, he can and he is intimidating! Then Hailey (12 years old and NEVER barks) put her nose to the air, and the hair on her back stood straight up. She started to bark the same bark. Now I have two big dogs going crazy, and no husband at home. I went inside to find a flashlight. NO LUCK!! I went back outside (stupid, stupid, stupid) and was pondering calling my dad or the police.......HMMMMM. The dogs are going crazy and not letting up, I am standing there in my pj's ~ Duh! I have no idea if the intruder is on four feet or two, but I am standing there waiting to find out. Repeat ~ no hubby home to protect me, and visions of werewolves fresh in the brain. Blood pressure raised at this point and heart racing.

Finally, Hailey gives up her protection bark, but remains on high alert. Koda, is not going to give this up without a fight. Alas, there is movement, and I can see that SOMETHING is on our fence that borders the ravine. It is smaller than a cat, but either a HUGE rat, or some other critter. As Koda is protecting me, it comes into the light..........a small opossum. It is hissing, snarling, and not happy that this smallish moose is trying to knock it off of "its" fence. I do the girlie thing and get a bribe for my dog. I order him to "come" and after getting his attention he does (yeah!!!) even if it is for a cookie, he obeyed with vermin in sight and almost in reach, good boy! Hailey has now seen it is vermin, and decided to look for a cookie for herself when I went in. As I feed him his treat for being such a good boy, I latch the leash on him, and bring my protector inside to be with me.

I go upstairs, and WHAT do I do????? I start where I left off in my mystery / thriller book. I am dumb!!! Of course it was the part in the story where one of the main characters gets her life threatened at knife point. It is high impact, and action, and getting later and later at night. It is now almost 11:30, before I get to a part in the story where it is normal, and I might be able to fall asleep.

Let's just say that the best part of the night was falling asleep praying for protection for me and my kiddos sleeping down the hall. I instantly felt HIS peace, and presence as sleep overwhelmed me, and without God that would have been IMPOSSIBLE. Thankfully, God is there to protect us from the Boogie Man, Vermin's, and suspense novels, as well as the "real" things in life.

Remember........

I remember so clearly the early morning phone call from a friend announcing that we were under attack. I remember rushing downstairs, to see the first tower fall, and the second plane hit. After dropping off Bubba with my Mom, I learned the news that no one in my family knew where my cousin was. Pure panic went through our family as her school is right next to the towers. I remember hearing the threats all the way to school, knowing that my husband works in a government office, and was on his way there. The fear I felt, when Hubby called my cell phone during class (unheard of people!) to tell me he was evacuated and told to go home. The visual memory of the images that day still haunt me. We found my cousin safe, four days later, and heard her gruesome tale. Knowing that we were one of the blessed few who got good news.

A few years ago, Mr. C. and I went to NYC, for our anniversary. On tour of the downtown area, I chose to not go to ground zero. I couldn't. I am an extremely visual person, and I have spent time in those towers with my cousin. I have wonderful memories, and then horrible images in my head from that gruesome day.

In honor of those who lost their lives on that day, I will not forget. This is our generations "Where were you moment" that truly matters in our history. I am flying our flag in memory of the heroes of that day. I look forward to the day, when the evil of this world is cast into the Lake of Fire, and dealt with once and for all. When the TRUE King rules over us all.

First Day of School

We MADE it!! Yesterday was the first day of school for my little munchkins. The morning went just as I would have predicted........Bubba, right where he should be, Missy changed outfits THREE times. Yep, we picked out THE outfit the night before, we knew how we were going to do our hair, our backpacks were packed, we were ready. Morning came, nerves came, and we changed our mind on EVERYTHING. I was proud of her though, because she changed into what is comfortable for her. A favorite skirt from the summer, and a comfy t-shirt. The cutest outfit she has - no, but she wore what she is comfortable in, and on a day like yesterday, I was proud of her choice to be herself.

We went to school as a family. We took the pictures by the sign (pictures I have of myself at the same school). I kissed Bubba goodbye as he was off to the playground, and walked the rest of the hallway to Kindergarten with Missy. She was big and put her backpack down, and off to the playground. She held my hand, unsure of what was going on. For every kid, there were a minimum of two parents. Many had even Grandparents there. 64 Kindergartners, 300 parents! NO JOKE!!! I would have been intimidated too. We swung on the swings, and got comfortable with the one little girl she knew from church. (whew!) Mr. C. and I chatted with parents who were in our same shoes, and friends from different walks in our lives.

The bell rang, and I was still doing good. I showed her were to line up ( in the girls line, of her class). She proudly said the pledge of allegiance, for we knew that one! Then they started the walk to class. They got their backpacks when told, and waved goodbye, with smiles on their faces to Mom's and Dad's and walked into class. I cried. My baby is now so big. She is gone for 8 hours a day. It is a big adjustment. This is a big day in her life, the start of her educational career.

Mr. C. is a wonderful, wonderful man, who gets me. He hugged me tight, and told me it was going to be okay. He said the things that I needed to hear as his wife, and as a Mom. Then, he sent me to the spa for the day! My sister in law and I have a small tradition of going to the spa on the first day of school. Last year for various reasons, we missed it. This year, it was mandatory. Mr. C. gave me an amazing gift card, that let me be pampered, relax, rejuvenate, and have a focus on the day besides missing our kids. At the end of treatments, and pampering, it was time to go pick the kids up. Last night was a night of stories, funny antics that kids did, and a glimpse into both of their days. IT must have been good, for they both were wiped out.

Today, drop off was much better. I shadowed her walking to her class, but refused to go out on the playground again today. I kissed her goodbye, made sure she went to the playground safely, and turned and left.....without tears. It is surreal today, the house is quiet (minus the music playing). The puppy doesn't quite know what to do without the others here to play with. We are making it, and not surprising getting things DONE!!! Wahoo!!! I think I can make this transition after all.

Happy Labor Day

Labor Day has it's history dating back to the 1800's. However, our FATHER has it dating back further than that. I was deeply challenged this past year, on taking days off. Having days of rest, really keeping a Sabbath day free of work. So on this day, that our nation recognizes, I am focusing on what God says about rest, and our labor.

Rosie the Riveter, has a point: WE CAN DO IT!!! We can take a day and focus on God, family, and friends. Enjoy a last hurrah before school starts, and the unofficial end of summer. Enjoy your day friends, and focus on what matters.

Genesis 2:2 on the seventh day God had finished HIS work of creation, so HE rested from all His work.

Exodus 23:12 You have six days each week for your ordinary work, but on the seventh day you must STOP working.......It allows you to be refreshed. (message repeated 5 more times in Exodus)

1 Chronicles 28:20 ....Be Strong and courageous, and DO the work. don't be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord God, my God is with you . He will not fail you or forsake you.

Psalm 127: 2 It is useless for you to work so hard from early morning until late at night, anxiously working for food to eat; for God gives rest to his loved ones.

2Corinthians 12:9 "My Grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness ." So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me.

Ephesians 6:7 Work with enthusiasm, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people.

Philippians 1:6 And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue HIS work until it is finally finished on the Day when Christ Jesus returns.

Sampson Summer

This is the second season of the Sampson Summer in our house. It started last summer, when around April, Bubba asked if he could be Sampson for the summer. So........after consideration, I said "sure" except for keeping to the rules during school. So as of the last day of school, NO shears of any shape touch my son's head for the entire summer. Does he get stronger? Nah, but it would be cool if he did. He does feel like a rebel though! I like the fact that he kind of looks like Zac Efron.

Then AFTER Back to School Night, the big transformation happens, and I get my clean cut boy back. Truth be told, I don't mind it long. He takes care of it. His baby face comes out when it is short, and it is SOOO much cooler for soccer season.

Today, Bubba and Missy visited Miss Christina, and we had fun! He loves it! Missy is very happy to have had a trim, but still able to do the VERY important pigtails. I am happy that it is one more thing off the check list before school starts next week.

One small step..........

Today I took what might seem to some as a small step in today's society, but let me assure you, it was

ONE GIANT LEAP,

for this stay at home Mama. I completed, for the second time (ugh and sigh on THAT story), my application to be a sub and reading specialist at my kid's school. I made the required copies of my degrees, credentials, and CBEST score. It is turned in, and secured. Now we wait for the phone to ring.

It has been six years since I have officially been in charge of a classroom, but I figure it is going to be like riding a bike. Once in there I can follow a lesson plan, organize and manage a class, and keep everyone from killing each other.

My confidence has been shaken from not being in the work force for so long, but today on my way home, I realized the tremendous blessing that the last six years has been. I have been taken care of by my Father who knew what was best for me and my family. The next step, I am not sure of, but I know that there is a God holding my hand making sure I don't fall.

Momisms......

Every Mom, has these. They are Momisms. Words that make little or no sense to anyone else but Mom,the family, and close friends. So on the lighter side, here are some of my family's Momisms. Some of them are still in use today, others have faded now that we have grown a bit. Either way, they are fun to remember. What are yours?

Bootchey = Bottom

Chicken = any meat, other than a hot dog or fish

Moo Juice = Milk

Cheesy Toast = Grilled Cheese

Underware vs Panties (depends on the gender, but the war rages on in my house)

Peeties = toes or feet

Bana = Banana

Candy Toast = Cinnamon and Sugar on toast

Pooh Sandwich = peanut butter and honey

Suckie = Pacifier

Jammies = pajamas (a friend pointed this one out, not that odd to me)

Candy and Raisins = Trail Mix

Nudey = Speaks for itself

Fooze ball = Football

Brown Cookie = Protein bar

Dragon Blood = the mix of ketchup and mustard together, so tasty on a corn dog

Goozle = the ticklish part under the chin, that makes my little Missy sqeal with delight

Tuesday's Treasure ~ Date Night

So last night we had date night. NOT me and Mr. C, but rather Missy and Me, Mr. C. and Bubba. This was an end of summer opportunity to spend quality time with each of our kids.

I let Missy choose what she wanted to do. Her choice, no joke was "I want to stay home for date night and watch a Barbie movie". Okay, that sounds easy, and fun.

Bubba and the Hubby, fulfilled one of Bub's dreams for the summer and went to Dodger Stadium for a game against the Diamond Backs. (gag, puke, cough, heart attack happening right here from the Angels fan family) His goal, was to just see a different stadium, sorta close by. So we were blessed by having a connection to a Diamond Back pitcher, and he got the boys seats with the players families. These are REALLY, REALLY nice seats behind home plate, or the dugout traditionally. He ate a Dodger dog (and didn't die!) They saw 5 home runs hit during the game, and most exciting was that they got to see a last minute baseball trade basically in action. You see, our pitcher connection actually got traded to the Dodgers during the 7th inning of the game! So now our friend, who last year actually WAS an Angel (yeah!), is now a Dodger. Bubba and Mr. C. were so excited to see it happening and be there for the live feed at the game. Baseball is wacky that way to trade mid season! Crazy, baseball factoid: he can't go home and move his stuff, because he is contracted to stay with the team. Guess his fiance is on her own for moving details!

Missy and I went shopping at one of our favorite stores of Target. When asked if she wanted to go out for dinner her response "No, I just want to stay home, and have Pot Stickers with rice." So we made dinner together, gave her a bath, got into jammies, and watched Barbie conquer the musical world. We made popcorn, cuddled on the couch, and topped the evening off with chocolate chip cookies. WE were in bed at a great time, a blessing to us both!

This morning the whole conversation between the two kids was how exciting their nights were. Two completely different nights, yet, two completely happy kids. Both were happy and excited for the other and how much fun they each had.

As for MY date night with hubby, thanks to my SIL and a sleep over with cousins, that is happening later this week!

Seasons are Changing.........

The seasons are about to change. I am not talking about Summer to Fall, we still have some time for that, but more quickly approaching is the change in my life seasons.

My little Missy has one week left before entering Kindergarten, Bubba going to Third grade. We have one week left, before both kids leave the house at 7:45 and come home around 3:30. I am somewhat apprehensive at what this road will look like.

For the last eight years, I have had at least one little one, home most of the time. I have had someone going with me to Bible Studies, BSF, Costco, Target, or the grocery store. I have had to work around naps, snacks, and constantly knowing where the precious blankey is, for both of my kids are Linus. I have treasured my role, been frustrated at times of having to watch Big Bird yet one more time, and being content and blessed just knowing that this morning I don't have to rush my babies to childcare like I did when Bubba was little. However, now that this season is coming to a close, I am conflicted with emotion. I do see the light at the end of the tunnel, but also am feeling a deep loss for my season that is ending.

For me change is always received with apprehension. I don't anticipate changes well. What does this next season look like with two kids in school? What does it look like to manage homework for two, sports, church activities, and general life? These are the questions that are left unanswered at the moment. Yet, my fears are soothed by the fact and comfort that I LOVE the school my kids attend. They are going to an environment that is so RIGHT for them, and will enrich them in ways that make them grow. They not only grow academically, artistically, but more importantly are strongly encouraged to grow spiritually.

I have one more week, with both of my kids to enjoy summer. So this week, I am trying to focus on the positive and have fun with them. For what is keeping my sanity, is knowing that there is a time for everything........

For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under Heaven (Ecclesiastes 3:1)...

(Life application according to me, no sacrilege intended)

A time for blankies, footie pajamas, and diaper buns,

A time for naps, snacks and Big Bird,

A time for Preschool, play dates, and being with Mom,

A time for completely independents in the bathroom,

A time for backpacks, lunch pails, and school supplies,

A time for Mom to have time to herself and get things done,

A time for a Heavenly Father to make sure that we are in HIS care,

A time for God to prepare me for the next adventure on this roller coaster we are on called life.

Beach Bums

Yesterday, my SIL and I took advantage of the fact that we are not back in school yet, and escaped to the beach for the day. I packed lunch for the kiddos, and she packed crab ceviche for us. The beach is part of my element. The sound of the crashing waves, the smell of the ocean, the saltiness in the air, and seeing the blue sky touch the blue green waves, this is Heaven to me while on Earth. I love sitting on the beach, watching the kids play, and seeing one of God's amazing creations right there.

The kids had a blast playing in the waves. There were some swells that easily cleared 8 or 10 feet, and came to shore with a vengeance. When these swells came, you could almost see the anger of the waves, while being protected on shore. The boogie boarding boys were delighted as they played and "surfed" where it was still safe. The girls, were a bit more timid, but enjoyed the waves all the same, and collected some great shells.

The day was amazing, and it got us away from the

117 degree weather

at home. Oh, you read that right! We don't normally get this hot, but at least we were blessed to have an escape. It was one more day I get to dig my feet into the sand before facing sending my littlest off to school.

And the TRUE Winner Is..........

Truth be told, I have loved all of the blogs you have sent me to for different reasons. However, the true winner is:

Lady Dunbar for giving me alittlebitofloveliness.blogspot.

It truly is wonderful. What the winning element was though, that the very first post that I read made me cry. I am not an easy crier per say, but she was posting about her little one going to kindergarten. I too, am facing that life changing event here in a couple of weeks, but that is a WAY different blog for a different day.

I also want to give a shout out to Humble Pie, wonderfully delightful, should we live closer, we would probably hang out! She introduced me to her sister, Stefiesjourney, which at times is thought provoking, at other times a hoot.

Lady Dunbar, I think I will hold your prize at ransom until I can give it to you during a girl's night out! ;)

Tuesday's Treasure

My treasure this morning is our church's annual Marriage Getaway. Even though it is a lot of work, it also is very fun and very rewarding. It is a time for marriages to be healed, refreshed and renewed. Friday night is a fun dinner party. Saturday is meetings, but with a three hour lunch (to relax by the pool, or have a leisure lunch with friends), followed by date night.

This year's topic for the whole conference was about TREASURE. What do we treasure, what does our lives reflect that we treasure? How is God being reflected in our marriages as a treasure?

Some of the sessions were easier than others to hear. Some were down right hard to realize just how selfish we can be with our time, finances, and lives. It made me ponder what is truly being reflected through my life as a treasure. Are others seeing my ONE true treasure of Jesus?

On the sad note, Mr. C. and I didn't get one picture of us dressed up! NOT ONE!!! There are pictures of our friends as couples, but not one of us. I did however treasure that he took the time to coordinate with my dress, you just can't see it :(

And the Winner Is.......

Sandal's Marriage Getaway!!!! Yep, you guessed it, it has won the contest, okay not really. The truth of the matter is though, that if I didn't have my hand-me-down new phone, I wouldn't have had the time to go to the fabulous places you have introduced me to. I spent a few minutes looking at blogs while waiting for fireworks at Disneyland, while Mr. C. was on rides with the kids. SOOOOO.....the contest is

EXTENDED!!!!!

One more week, of submitting your fabulous favorite places to see blogs. I like what I see so far though!

In the mean time, here is a Pointless Poll for you......................

• Are your toes painted for summer or fall, and what color are they?

For those of you coming to the Getaway, can't wait to party with you. For those who I won't be seeing there, pray for my sanity......it might be slowly leaving. I actually had to pause when asked my husbands name. I PAUSED!!!! WOW is my brain happily fried.

More to post, when there is a moment of calmness.............

Celebrate 100

With Tuesday's blog, I have reached 100 posts!!!!

WAHOO!!!

Who would have known? I sure didn't when I started on this journey, that if for sure. The best news is that you could CELEBRATE too! Here is my challenge........

• Over the next week, introduce me to a blog that you love, that I don't know about.
• Tell me why you love them, and why you think I will, or should.
• The winner, of my favorite will celebrate with me and WIN A PRIZE!!!
• The contest will end August 19th, and yes, you can submit more than one!
• Tell your friends, they can win too!!!
  

Happy celebrating, and thanks for going on this blogging journey with me.

Tuesday's Treasure ~ Best Friends

My Treasure is my kid's relationship. They have always gotten along. They have always been nice to each other, with reason. But this summer, they have blown me away. My kids have had a LOT of time where it has been the two of them only. They have only had each other to be entertained by. This summer has been magical, and I know it won't always last. Instead of TV in the morning, they are quick to play with each other. Every afternoon and night, they veg out with each other playing a game or deciding together the movie they want watch. They have literally been in each other's back pocket, and liked it.

Now, don't get me wrong, there have been moments. But it has been just that, moments, that are quickly fading, and never lasting long. I will treasure this summer, for the pure joy that my kids have been, for I know that this too may be a only a memory next year.